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February 11 Where is the Love of My Life?Just in time for Valentine's Day, Tips for finding the love of your life or keeping the romance in your love.
WHERE IS THE LOVE OF YOUR LIFE?
Is your dream having a love in your life that knocks your socks off and makes your days and nights soaring joy? That's a great dream to have. I promised you, I'd give you some inside tips on how to find that love! And if you already have a partner, these tips will help keep you more interesting and make your life with another happier and more solid.
A few years ago, I was alone and lonely. My first husband was dying and I was facing living the rest of my life alone. Or finding a new love. How did I do it? Where did I look?
First and most important, look within yourself. EVERYTHING (health, wealth, success, writing, and living the life you want) starts with our thoughts--our attitudes. Too often we look for love to fill a hole in our lives. That doesn't work and when it does, usually the romance doesn't last.
The first step is to love yourself and to build a life that you love now. By yourself. You'll be more interesting and more whole. A much better partner. And then you'll attract a much better partner.
When Ken found me, I loved my life. As Jack's health deteriorated (he had Parkinson's Disease), I started planning my life alone--planning for living my dreams. For years and years I'd dreamed of living right ton the beach. The ocean is my healer, my joy, my heart's home and my path to God. I bought a condo right on the beach and I took a writing class. My life was GOOD. It didn't need a partner to have a joyful life. But I wanted one to make it better!
In later blogs I'll talk about good places to meet people. But before you go out there looking, become a person who is whole and complete by yourself. When we're needy, we find needy people and to have a life of sheer joy, both people must be whole on their own.
Look at what you love to do. Listen to good music? You can do that alone. Walking the beach or the mountains, biking or hiking? You don't need a partner to do that.
Do what you enjoy and start building your life around those things. You'll be more interesting, more fun and you'll be happier. All of these will make you more attractive and more likely to find that special love.
When you do this, you'll find it easy to come soar with me!
Bless you,
Dr. Jeanne |
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